Your Engagement Session 📸
While optional, an engagement session can be incredibly helpful. It allows you to practice posing, get comfortable working with a professional photographer, and build trust with your wedding team early on. Plus, you’ll receive gorgeous photographs for your save-the-dates, invites, website registries, guest books, wall art, holiday cards, and of course, to share all over Instagram and Facebook. 📸
The engagement session is FUN!
99.99% of couples I’ve worked with have said they’re uncomfortable in front of the camera and need help posing. And you know what? I’ve got you! These sessions aren’t really about posing; they’re about having fun together. We’ll be laughing the entire time, and that’s what it’s all about. 😄
When to schedule your engagement session?
I typically recommend about 6 months before your wedding day. The style of images you want will determine the best time of year. Cozy fall vibes with sweaters and scarves? A lightweight dress in the summer breeze? A snowy adventure with snow-covered trees? Your preference will guide the timing. 🍂🌞❄️
Regarding the time of day, it depends on the location. Some places photograph better mid-day, others in the morning, and others during the golden hour in the evening. Most often, sessions are in the late afternoon or early evening. I’ll help you navigate this. After 10 years as a full-time photographer, I know the best locations to achieve your vision.
Your Engagement Session: What to Wear 👗👕
- Pick one outfit: Choose your favorite outfit to maximize session time. Changing outfits can be time-consuming and might not be worth it.
- Complimentary outfits: Avoid matching outfits. Instead, opt for similar vibes and colors.
- Avoid bold patterns and graphics: Stick to solid colors or subtle patterns.
- No big logos: If possible, avoid logos altogether.
- Pastel colors: Soft, warm, romantic tones work great. For a bold statement, try red or yellow.
- Accessories: Add a touch of class and personality with subtle accessories.
- Empty your pockets: Avoid bulging keys, phones, or wallets in photos.
- Wrinkle-free clothes: Iron or steam your outfits, even if they’re new.
- Clean your ring: Make it sparkle. Many jewelers offer free cleaning.
- Plan for traffic: Arrive at least 30 minutes early to relax before the session.
- Make a date out of it: After the session, go for a romantic dinner. It’s these moments that are truly memorable. ❤️
When Are Engagement Sessions Photographed? 🗓️
Typically on Mondays. Weekends are reserved for weddings, and Sundays are family time. Mondays are ideal because popular locations are less crowded, parking is easier, and traffic is lighter. After 10 years of experience, I’ve found Mondays to be the best days for outdoor engagement sessions for these reasons.
Should I Do a Bridal or Boudoir Session? 💍👙
Boudoir sessions make an extra special gift for your soon-to-be husband. Nerves are normal, but these sessions are powerful and memorable. If you go the boudoir route, consider pairing it with a photo album or a few prints. He’ll cherish these private photos forever. 💝
If you’re comfortable with sexy lingerie, rock it! If not, opt for what makes you feel good – maybe daisy-dukes, playful underwear, his favorite sports team jersey, or his button-down shirt. Play it up and have fun! 🎉
For boudoir sessions, schedule them 2-3 months before your wedding. This gives your photographer ample time to edit, deliver your gallery, and get the artwork or album to you in time for your wedding day. It makes for a fantastic wedding gift that he will treasure.